I recommend The 36-Hour Day because it transforms overwhelming uncertainty into a manageable plan. By providing the education necessary to understand the science of the disease and offering practical strategies for behavioral challenges, it serves as a roadmap through the entire process—offering the emotional validation and support caregivers need to feel seen and understood.

I recommend The Complete Family Guide to Dementia because it addresses the reality that dementia doesn't just affect a patient—it affects an entire family system. It provides a comprehensive look at the science of the condition while offering practical tools for the difficult conversations and decisions that adult children often face. This book provides the emotional validation needed to navigate your changing role while ensuring you have the knowledge to advocate for both your parent and yourself.

I recommend The Validation Breakthrough because it offers a shift in how we communicate with those experiencing cognitive decline. Rather than focusing on factual reality, Naomi Feil’s 'Validation Method' teaches us to connect with the emotional reality of the person. You can validate an emotional experience without agreeing with the content. Using the strategies in this book, caregivers can reduce stress and agitation for themselves and their loved ones.